Friday, August 9, 2013

Lord I Need You

I am here.  On my knees.  With hands lifted up.  

I CANNOT do this alone.

I have tried. 

 And I fail.  

Every time.  

But with You. 

 I won't.  

Your deepest desire is for me to thrive.  But we can't overcome our hang ups.  So You meet us where we are and give us the strength to overcome anything.


Lord I need You, every hour I need You.  My one defense, my righteousness.  
Oh God how I need You.
So teach my soul to rise to You, when temptation comes my way.  When I cannot stand, I will fall on You.  Jesus you are my hope and stay.  

I.  Cannot.  Do.  This.  Alone!!!!

Thank You Lord.  Thank You for giving me the strength to try another day, to not give up on myself or for what You have for me.  

Please forgive me for doing what I want to do, for not following through with what You have for me.  

Please remind me to meet my children with love and not burdens.  To have grace and show them that love through personal sacrifice.

Please help to only say things that are helpful and not try to prove myself right to my husband.

Please guide me in this journey of eating well.  I can do it with Your help.

I praise You Jesus for who You are, for what You are doing and for the beautiful future You have for me!

Monday, June 24, 2013

This is the day I am beginning my diet!  I am doing a shake twice a day, drinking water, taking out processed sugars and food.  Not eating out and cooking healthier for my family.  I am also working out, making daily affirmations and reading a Proverbs a day.It is going to be hard, but it is going to be worth it.  I feel better when I don't drink pop, and I feel re-energized and healthier.  I know that this is what the Lord wants, this is how he created food to be, He wants food to satisfy us, not just to enjoy.  I am going to need His strength, His help and His leading, because I don't want to live this way, but I also don't like to eat what I want...I will be checking in every day with what I did, what I didn't do and what I can do different tomorrow.

Sunday, March 17, 2013


When I started this blog I wanted to post how I was going to change.

Well I do want to change...very badly...

So I got out my books, made my lists, had the great ideas....and then nothing.


What gives?  What happened?  Why didn't I change...I mean come on, I prayed...I read, I wrote my lists..I did everything right...


I forgot to do anything.
I didn't use the lists..
Or applied what I read in the books..
Or followed the Holy Spirit's prompting...

I think I was waiting for that magic pill to activate.
You know the one, where you swallow the pill and the pounds go away, and you become organized and wake up in the morning and start your day off right.
You have got to know the pill.  Well I was waiting for it...and it never came.

So I realized something.  I need to....

Remember this?  It's what Mike wanted us to do...and this is what I need to do.

Isn't the definition of insanity doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.  I mean I was waking up the same time, not using my Notebook, keeping the same schedule and spending all the money while eating hamburgers each day...and expecting to be caught up, have more money and losing weight.

I need to JUST DO IT!!!  I mean I have researched and read and prayed and haven't done anything with it.  It is like finding a cure and going to bed and getting up the next morning and still researching a cure.

I need to use the recipies
I need to count the calaries
I need to set the alarm
I need to record my money

Put some verbs to my sentences, use the determination and strength of mind that the Lord is giving me and ACT!

Help me to act dear Lord...Help me to do the action you have set me to do...Help me...I want to act dear Lord, I want to be better, to use the ideas you have inspired to learn.  You are my strength, the One I can lean on and gain inspiration from.  I love you Lord and want to honor you...and I know that I can with Your strength and love.

Tuesday, January 22, 2013


Insecurity: adj. Inadequately guarded or protected; unsafe.

Insecurity. Just the sound of it makes me want to gag on a spoon! Haha! Remember back in high school when we said that?! Well that is how long I have been fighting it.

I mean, 'come on. Shouldn't I be better than this by now? Shouldn't I know that I have nothing to be insecure about? I have done all the self talk, read all the books, talked with everyone. Yet, ugly stupid thoughts would rear their ugly head! You know the ones:

"you know you weren't invited because they don't like you,"

" your kids disobeyed you because you haven't taught them good enough and they are going to grow up and be hellions"

Oh and my favorite, "you are so fat, your husband thinks you are ugly"

These are the thoughts that still come up, still haunt me at the ripe old age of 37.

Those thoughts are stupid angry thoughts...but what gets me into trouble is when I get dragged down and start BELIEVING the thoughts. That's when Satan has me at his best, that is when he convinces me that the dirty, ugly thoughts become my reality and my identity is wrapped into my insecurity.

And you know what? I hate it!!!! HATE IT!!!!

I mean you want to know what insecurity means?!

Inadequately guarded or protected; unsafe

Seriously! Am I Inadequately guarded? Um, no! Am I Inadequately protected? Um, no! Why you ask? Because of this promise:

You are my refuge and my shield; I have put my hope in your word. (Psalms 119:114 NIV84)

And this promise:

You give me your shield of victory, and your right hand sustains me; you stoop down to make me great. (Psalms 18:35 NIV84)

So according to the dictionary insecurity can only exist if I am Inadequately guarded...and since I am guarded, and protected and safe...THERE IS NO REASON FOR THE INSECURITY!

Now here is the stinky part:
The stupid, angry thoughts are going to come back. BUT (and this is a big but),

I can Overcome, not by me, but by the Holy Spirit in me.

And the stupid, angry thoughts can go away, because I am protected and safe and that is all I need!

Wednesday, January 16, 2013

Maximize Your Mornings: Hello Mornings

I am not a morning person!  Not. At. All.  I love to sleep, and for some reason the bed is the most comfortable right before you have to leave it!  The only thing is that I know how important it is to get up before my family.

My kids get out the door on time and without craziness...
I get to eat breakfast, have my devotional and get to have a little quiet to myself...
I get to plan my day and be the wife and mother I always want to be....

It is so important to get up early, so important to start my day off important, but I never do it...I always give in to the warm bed, instead of doing the right thing...

So I joined this challenge, I will be joining other women who are committing to getting up and starting their day off right...all over the world, click here and join us...join us to commit to get up and start our days off right!

Monday, January 14, 2013

It's Not About Me

Wow!  You never know how much you get out of Worship and Praising God in church, until you can't.  I had to work yesterday, so I couldn't go to church and I didn't even realize I had lost my focus until I listened to a song posted by a blog I follow.

I started to listen and to praise God and all of a sudden, the Holy Spirit brought something to my mind by one line in the song.....

I live my life to shine Your Light

There is none besides you God

I was hit between the eyes with that one!

It is not about my hurt feelings, insecurities, finding a perfect house, having a successful program...


Satan tries so hard to take my focus off of the big picture (serving God) and focusing on things that rob me from joy (fears, insecurity, anger..).  The joy of serving my God, of living for Him, of putting Him first in my life.  Those things bring me true joy and every time my focus strays, I become discontent and full of anxiety and think lies of myself...

The thing is, why do I keep doing this?  Why can't I stay in the focus of the big picture?  Stay in the grace and love of my heavenly Father?  Why do I get swept up in the lies to the point that I can't see the forest from the trees? 

I am not sure why I do, but I am so glad that there is grace...grace from my family members, grace from my friends...

And the perfect grace from my precious Heavenly Loving Abba...the One who brings the songs and moments in life to bring me back to His wonderful peace and wonderful love.

Here is the song that touched my life...